DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband promises he will lose weight but never does.
I am fed up and losing interest in sex.
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He was a bit overweight when we met 18 years ago but he's piled on the weight since and it affects our family life.
He has never taken the kids swimming and his snoring is now so bad I can't sleep. He is 37, I am 34.
He says he hates being overweight, but he quickly gives up on diets or exercising.
He only managed once to get to his normal weight for his height.
I told him he looked good and our sex life was brilliant. But slowly the weight piled back on.
I have tried ignoring it, nagging him, and pleading with him. Now I give up.
DEIDRE SAYS: The roots of his eating issues are likely to go back to his childhood.
Maybe food was a reward or substitute for feeling loved when he was growing up.]
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Tell him you fear for his long-term health.
Put the emphasis on the whole family getting healthier rather than focusing on him dieting.
My e-leaflet End Weight Worries tells how to enjoy eating and still maintain a healthy weight.
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